Val Lam
Val Lam
Denver, Colorado, US
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About Me

I'm rather quiet and maybe a little on the serious side. I'm a certified bookworm and a worry wart according to my family, though I do, on occasion, release that little bit of inner child that I have left. People tell me I work too hard and think too much, I will admit they're right, on both counts. Being Asian, it would be an understatement to say that I come from a large family, I'm the oldest in my immediate family and have a younger brother. I enjoy making arts and crafts, writing, and drawing as well. I pride myself most on my intelligence, or more likely my brain. It usually works 24/7, or maybe I make it work 24/7, either way, it tries not to complain, and even if it does I am oft to ignore it.

Things and People I Admire

My grandma, my mom, and my teachers

What I Care About

My Family, my friends, Improvement, Music

Books

The Little Prince, Mystery/Real Crime, Self-Education

TV Shows

CSI:Crime Scene Investigation, CSI:NY, Law and Order:SVU, NCIS

Favorite Foods

Vegetables!

Favorite Places

Anywhere with a large body of water
 
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Brad Hyatt
Brad Hyatt wrote:

That's what the world could use is to some TRUTH. I'll look into that as I believe it'll be something I'll enjoy reading. Hope your camping trip went well! take care!

August 14, 03:47PM
Brad Hyatt
Brad Hyatt wrote:

A book I read just last night: 23 Minutes In Hell by Bill Wiese. It is really the kind of book that makes you think about eternity. I also read a book called 90 Minutes In Heaven by Don Piper. This book is very uplifting and gives hope.

August 14, 07:19AM
Brad Hyatt
Brad Hyatt wrote:

Hi!, how are you doing? read any great books lately? I'd appreciate anything you happen to recommend. Take care!

August 14, 05:46AM
Krystal Tender

I Cried Because I Have No New Shoes Until I Found a Man Without Feet

This is a true to life encounter with the author and a Nameless Woman. It happened today; 16th of May 2008.
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Sharing an article I wrote and published in different websites dated 16 May 2008 (buzzle.com, itelyou.com and enjoymystory.com)
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I was exiting a store this morning, when a woman approached me and asked a stick of cigarette. I told her I don’t have any, besides I only smoke when I hit the rock bottom. She told me she was very hungry. I said, "If you are, why are you asking for a cigarette instead of food". She said, "It is easier for people to give cigarette than give food." I normally don’t trust stranger because of my training in crime prevention, but somehow, I thought what if she really is. I invited her to the restaurant across the street and ordered her breakfast. I watched her eat like she never eats for a long time. I asked her if she got kids, she said, she got 3 left on her friend’s house. I ordered take home for the kids as well. When she is done, she grabbed my hand, and kissed it, I was taken aback. She asked my name and said’ "Thank You." I told her, "I am one of those nameless faces you meet everyday." I saw her cried. I told her goodbye and take care and patted her shoulder. I went to my car, I turned back and she was still there looking at me, still staring at me until I am gone out of the parking lot.

While driving, I feel there is something building up in my chest, and I started crying. I came from a third world where food is scarce and I am lucky because my family has enough, but to see somebody starving here struck me. While we are the one that make or unmake our lives, I am not prejudice to judge her sufferings and the sufferings of millions like her in the world. She mirrors to me the reality of life…IT IS NEVER BEEN FAIR. All of a sudden I was embarrassed because I complained so much to God why He took away some people I love dearly, spent long hours praying asking for answers. I feel guilty because I have all the basic things I need to live, which are denied to the many. That woman is a reflection of my greed, greed to seek the happiness that I thought was denied to me. I suddenly woke up and realized that the pains I have been carrying are not necessary. And there goes the saying: "I CRIED BECAUSE I HAVE NO SHOES, UNTIL ONE DAY I FOUND A MAN WITHOUT FEET." and yet he is happy. Thanks for that nameless woman; she is just very ordinary, however, she did extra ordinary things for me.

August 13, 02:25PM
Krystal Tender

My 3rd grade teacher gave this piece to me when I represented my class level for an oratorical contest, as part of the whole script, I was 9 years old, and I feel in love with it. The Little Prince, is a book I really treasured when I was in high school introduced through a Book Club. Yes, very true why can't people look things through the eyes of the child, if only, then we can heal the world.

August 01, 10:41AM
Krystal Tender

I noticed we both like the Little Prince, some people dont hear about it.

July 29, 10:58PM
Krystal Tender

My Masterpiece)

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.

July 29, 10:57PM
 
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